Sotto isn't just a dating app. It's a relationship ecosystem, designed to guide you through the entire journey of love, starting with you.
From self-awareness to shared commitment, each phase builds naturally toward lasting partnership
Where your journey begins.
Before you build a relationship with someone else, you build one with yourself.
Sotto helps you reflect on your past patterns, emotional pacing, and what you're truly ready for.
You'll get personal insight into how you connect, where you disconnect, and what needs to shift before love can land.
Why this matters
If you don't know yourself, dating becomes a loop. Sotto helps you date from clarity, not habit.
Where dating becomes intentional.
You receive one high-quality blind match per week. If you both say yes, the Vault opens.
Where something real takes shape.
You're no longer in the early stages — you're becoming something. Sotto shifts with you.
Advanced tools and intelligence that support your relationship journey at every step
Complete your relationship readiness assessment and discover your unique attachment style
Meet people who align with your values, timeline, and relationship goals
Navigate each phase with AI-powered coaching and tools for meaningful growth
Unlock deeper features through mutual commitment, ensuring serious intentions
Join thousands building meaningful relationships through intention and commitment
We're not another dating app. We're a complete relationship ecosystem.
Join thousands building meaningful relationships through Sotto's revolutionary approach to love
Love, designed with intention